Do you know how long four years is?
I know you think you do, but you don’t.
In four years, I’ve been through a redundancy and been employed twice more. That’s three different jobs at three different companies. In four years.
In four years, I have visited 7 different countries for holidays.
In four years, the bridesmaid ditched a man she was about to move across the country for. Got over him. Met another guy, dated him, got engaged, planned a wedding, got married and is having a baby in a month’s time. In less than four years.
Another friend, fell pregnant, was made redundant, had her first son, started a new job, started looking for a house to buy, bought a house, moved to the southern suburbs, fell pregnant again and her son number 2 is now a month old. In less than four years.
Four years is a really, really, really long time.